How to Prepare for a Medium Reading

Wondering how to prepare for a medium reading? Whether you're hoping to connect with a loved one in spirit, seek closure, or simply explore what lies beyond the veil, preparation can help create a more meaningful, grounded experience.

In this guide, we'll walk you through exactly what to do before your session with a psychic medium so you can enter the reading calm, open, and ready to receive messages from the other side.

Quick Answer: How Do You Prepare for a Medium Reading?

To prepare for a medium reading:

• Find a quiet space and time free from distractions

• Reflect on who you hope to connect with, but stay open

• Centre your energy through breathing or meditation

• Avoid alcohol or emotional overwhelm beforehand

• Keep a journal handy to take notes after your reading

Why Preparing for a Medium Reading Is Important

Mediumship is sacred work. A good reading can bring healing, peace, and spiritual clarity, but it’s also deeply personal. When you approach your session with calm, intention, and respect, you help create the right conditions for clear communication with spirit.

At Ask The Answer, our experienced mediums work with sensitivity and care. They don’t summon spirits - they invite messages from those who step forward, naturally and in love. Preparing yourself energetically allows that connection to unfold more smoothly.

1. Choose the Right Time and Environment

Avoid scheduling a medium reading during a busy or stressful day. Make time to be present. If your session is via phone or online, ensure you’re somewhere quiet and private.

Tips:

• Light a candle or hold an object that reminds you of the person you wish to connect with

• Turn off phones, notifications, or anything that might interrupt the energy

• Let loved ones know you need private time if you live with others

2. Reflect on Your Intentions - But Stay Open

It's natural to want to hear from a specific person in spirit. While it’s okay to hope for a certain connection, spirit communication doesn’t always follow a script. Someone else may step forward first.

Do:

• Think about the person/people you’d love to hear from

• Gently invite them in your mind, with love

• Be open to who shows up - sometimes the most surprising messages are the most healing

3. Ground Your Energy Before the Reading

Mediumship works best when your energy is calm and receptive. Before the session:

• Sit quietly for 5–10 minutes

• Breathe deeply and slowly

• Visualise yourself surrounded by peaceful white light

• Release any expectations and simply be

4. Avoid Substances or Heavy Emotions

Substances like alcohol, as well as overwhelming grief or heightened stress, can block your ability to be fully present. Give yourself space to rest, hydrate, and find emotional balance before your reading.

This doesn't mean you need to be completely healed - many people turn to mediums in grief. But try to bring a sense of gentle presence and openness, even in the sadness.

5. Take Notes or Journal Afterwards

Spirit messages can be subtle, symbolic, or come in unexpected ways. You may not realise their full meaning until later. Writing down what you remember — names, phrases, sensations — can help you reflect and find deeper meaning in the days that follow.

If a loved one in spirit says something you don’t understand immediately, don’t dismiss it. Often, validation comes after the session.

Final Thoughts

Preparing for a medium reading isn’t about control - it’s about honouring the experience and welcoming the connection. By grounding yourself and staying open, you create space for healing messages, love, and even laughter to come through.

At Ask The Answer, we believe mediumship is a gift - not only from the medium, but from spirit itself. With the right preparation, you can receive exactly what your soul is ready to hear.

FAQs: Preparing for a Medium Reading

Do I need to bring anything to a medium reading?
No tools are required, but you may wish to bring a photo, piece of jewellery, or memento of your loved one. A notebook or journal can also help you reflect afterwards.

Can I ask to connect with a specific person in spirit?
You can express a desire to hear from someone, but spirit decides who comes forward. Often, the person you hope to hear from will show up - but not always.

What if I don’t receive a message from the person I want?
Sometimes spirit communicates in ways we don’t expect. You may hear from someone else first, or receive a message that becomes clear later. Trust the timing.

How long should I wait after someone passes to book a reading?
There's no exact timeline, but many mediums suggest waiting a few weeks. This allows space for grieving, and gives the spirit time to adjust on the other side.