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Manifesting and detachment to attract your soul mate
Written by
Crystal Waters | 12th July 2026
Hi I'm Crystal waters, I have worked on ask the answer many years I specialise in love and relationship readings. I use my intuition to read and also as a way to navigate my relationships. When it comes to getting the persons attention you wish to be with there are a few spiritual practices you can use. Firstly manifesting, the way I like to do this is dream manifesting I find that by trying to get comfy for bed and then image your dream life with this person. This type of manifestation is easy and doesn't require any witchy bits. The next I like to use is written manifesting, just journal about your dreams and goals with your person in question.
Next is the power of detachment, if you find manifesting pushes them away then detachment temporarily may be what is right for your persons personality style. With detachment I dont disappear but focus on myself every time I think of them I do something that is just for me. It may be a workout, make up routine, walk, sitting in nature anything to take that energy that i had been directing to that person and to put it into something constructive. This works very well as they can actually feel you pull away and work on your self. The good thing is your life gets the ultimate level up if your focusing on your looks you get a glow up it's a win win. You will get that text or call if your ment to but in the meantime you have just levelled up. This works especially well if the person in question is expecting you to be sat there by the phone waiting on them. It is good for your spiritual well being as well as there's.
I really hope these methods help you guys and if you decide to contact me for a reading I will be sure to look into it and see if your magic is working ? I believe these are good methods as they dont bend free will I feek they just encourage an avoidant person to be a bit brave and get your attention back on them. I will touch on avoidants and anxious attachments to, if your person pulls away is hot and cold on and off or runs when things start getting more serious then you are dealing with an avoidant. A lot of spiritual girlies tend to be more anxiously attached due to being more emotionally open, caring and empathetic. Which is amazing but I find that means we are more understanding and a little to forgiving for my anxiously attached girlies the detachment method is the best for you all. Avoidants can change and come around most people are usually avoidant due to something painful a heartbreak and struggle to trust. The good thing is that everyone wants and needs love some people just take a while to settle into the rhythm of commitment. So there is hope with a little patience. If you want to find out if your person is avoidant just give me a call, IM or email.