So many of us get hurt by our relationships whether they're with our family members, our children, our closest friends and our partners and lovers. Do we give up on love? My straight answer to this is No - never give up on love and here's why.
We are all beautiful Souls who are a part of the Divine Source of Love - stay with me on this! The problem is that when we are born as the beautiful souls we are into this Earthly dimension we immediately forget, for the most part, who we are and why we are here and also how beautiful Divine Love is and that we are an infinite expression of that Love. We become affected by the environment we are in, and by the immediate relationships we have with our parents etc. This begins to fuel the very deep emotions that we are born with being grief and abandonment. We are all part of this - each and every one of us - all beautiful souls of Love, looking for that reconnection - of returning home to LOVE.
So no wonder we get really upset when a partner, friend or family member hurts us or just doesn't live up to what we expect them to be - but hey, how can anyone behave in a perfect way all of the time when we are all processing the deep hurts of the grief of separation from Source Love and the feeling of abandonment in that?
Here's how we can begin to mend that. Since we are all connected as individual beings in the Light of divine Source - everything we do/say/feel has an outwards expression in the world. If we realise with true eyes (real eyes) that as we are part of everything, so is everything else a part of that divinity also, when we send love outwards it returns to us, when we love ourselves we will receive it back. Here's the most important factor of all - Forgiveness. When we forgive ourselves we are forgiving others and vice versa.
Also, since time is an illusion and our beautiful souls are multidimensional, when we begin to think like this as a force of habit - love and forgiveness, no separation - we become Instant Manifestors. Love will come easily to you and you will change the lives of others through your love.
This is in a sense a daily practice.
When we get cut off from love and vow we will never ever fall in love again - what are we doing? Cutting off the very life force of divine creation itself! If we blame another for spoiling things, we are also blaming ourselves.
So, be the change, be the empty vessel that just allows love to flow in and out like the ebb and flow of the tide. BE LOVE and see what happens, you might just be surprised at how your life begins to transform in so many ways for the better.' - Gwyneth PIN 600016