Fate, Destiny and Synchronicity: What Is The Difference?
Fate and destiny are the results of the choices we make in life. What comes to all of us through Universal Energy is what we put out there ourselves. Synchronicity is something else altogether.
Why do I keep meeting the same kind of man/woman?
What have I done in my life to deserve this?
Why does nothing ever go right for me?
Why is she/he so nasty to me?
Why can’t I meet the right person for me?
The above questions are some that can or will be put down to Fate/Destiny. “It always turns out rubbish, why do I even bother?” is a comment I hear quite often as a reader. It is caused by negativity within or negativity around you and it can easily turn into an ever-perpetuating cycle. So how do you change what you feel is inevitable? Let’s take a look at the questions above and change the focus.
Why do I keep meeting the same kind of man/woman?
I have had a bad experience with a person but now it is time to learn from that and move on.
What have I done in my life to deserve this?
I deserve the best in my life, and I aim to settle for nothing less than that.
Why does nothing ever go right for me?
I have had issues in my life but now it’s time to move on and upwards.
Why is she/he so nasty to me?
She/he needs to face themselves and their issues and I refuse to accept their negativity.
Why can’t I meet the right person for me?
I will meet the right person; they are out there, and it is just a matter of time.
By replacing each negative question with a positive statement, you will begin to change your own fate and destiny. This is linked to the Law of Attraction and the power of the universe.
Synchronicity is totally another matter. It really means a string of (or even just one or two) coincidences that are orchestrated and perfectly aligned to deliver a message, provide guidance, or provide reassurance that we’re on the right path. This is a far more spiritual chain of events. Be open to seeing what is there, not just looking for something or expecting it to be there. Also, open your mind to receiving messages. This can mean simply letting go of expectations and wandering through other opportunities that are presented to you. An example of this can be seeing the same person through a dream or an unexpected phone call or connection that leads to another event. A true-life example of this is a taxi driver who I booked to take me to some house viewings. Nothing was right and after 2 more tiresome trips, the same driver turned up. This time he was insistent on taking me to a new build site where the houses were still being built. I said it’s probably too expensive, but I enquired anyway. It turns out it wasn’t and I have now lived in that same spot for the last 3 years and I’m very happy. That was Synchronicity!
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