What do you look for in a person? Well the first thing must be attraction followed by having similar interests and beliefs but enough differences to make it interesting. Thirdly you have enough of an intellectual connection to understand and communicate well. Sometimes you get two but not the third. That's when you date someone for a couple of dates then never hear from then again. The relationship might just be determined by a gut instinct it feels right. Perhaps you had a past life together or have simply found a soul mate.
Does this person make you feel supported and loved? Do they big you up instead of putting you down. Do they discuss future plans? Be careful here as sometimes it's all talk. Make sure you judge him by his deeds so that you cannot be drawn in to the idea of a future together but he doesn't really offer one. Does he introduce you as his partner to friends and family and you both integrate each other into your lives.
A good relationship is built on trust and support. Compromise in a relationship shows mutual trust in one another. Make sure this relationship is fun. It's not meant to be hard work. You should be team mates. However if he is sometimes emotionally distant and pulls back occasionally then he is controlling the pace of the relationship. It just does not flow showing his indication of an untold agenda. Is he really into you or is the relationship moving too fast. There will be times when things get rocky but if you have similar visions to the future you want and commitment you will get there. If you have any reservations about your relationship or just want to know if it will go long term then call me. I really look forward to chatting with you