You have chosen the Lovers and the 10 of Cups.The Lovers is ruled by communication. It's about the physical attraction and the choices that are made within a relationship. Usually there's a third party involved which is usually the obstacle between the two parties within the relationship. The Lovers can sometimes be seen as the card of temptation, the Adam and Eve card. It shows that in your relationship, that communications are usually not enough between two parties. This is because of family commitments which take on a very strong relationship and a large group, either your immediate family or your friends take on far too much of your time. Now the 10 of Cups is one of the most positive cards in the pack but it can be getting in the way of a Lovers relationship where the family takes priority over a loving couple. You need your independence to communicate as man and wife or as two adults in a relationship. The bliss and happiness regarding the family is one side. It's cosy, dreamy and successful and yes it leads on to more happiness but at the moment the family is what's in the way of the relationship and although the fulfilment of the happiness within the relationship of children, home or animals could be getting in the way of both parties for you need to be Lovers and not just mums, dads, brothers, sisters or part of the furniture. You need to get that spice back in your life where you come together and communicate briefly, even if you're really busy you could do so briefly, but you've got to make sure that you don't take each other for granted and that you must communicate to each other in the way that the physical attraction is still there otherwise you're taking each other for granted in a way that means that you become old before your time and mixed up with the worries of being involved as a large group of people such as a family that takes priority over the love and the cherishment and the physical attraction between a couple. It is important, relationships are hard work and you must remember to make time for each other and to talk to each other in a way that is not linked solely to the family, your home, the children, the work that is two unique individual people that came together in the beginning, created all of this, but you must not lose sight of the love and admiration that you had for each other originally. It is still there. Make sure you remind each other of that by communicating how you feel - do not take the other person for granted.