Your happiness can depend on this. True love is very passionate and exciting. You would even make great sacrifices for the person that you love or vice a versa. Your lover will have wonderful qualities, that you will be blessed with for your own happiness. These traits will come naturally to a kind, respectful, wise, mature and smart adult . They do not have to have a big ego, because they are very happy within. Being a best friend, partner and lover in this order is the best way to have a great lasting love in your life.
When you are involved with a fake love, then you must deal with a person that is unkind, insecure, mean, jealous, childish, disrespectful, verbally or physically abusive to just name a few terrible traits. They may try to blame you, and some fall for this. If you were brought up in this type of environment, then you gravitate to this personality, so you need to get some help to conquer this habit. Look to your childhood, as we go with what we know, good or bad . Get out of this situation as soon as you are able. You do not have to fear, this person is really weak! Make sure you have good working ability, and if not get some training, because when you have your own money, then you have power to make changes that will succeed.
Communication is the key in any thriving relationship, be it work, friendship or love. Never make the mistake of saying to yourself. I cannot live without this person in my life; well , you did before you met. If it is a relative, spend as little time with them as possible. If you cannot change the work place, find a new job. Life is short and you need to be with people that make you feel joy. There is never any excuse that will keep a person in the wrong situation; there is help available to change.
The great breakup means you never go back with the person that is toxic. Do you know someone that has serious flaws in their personality? They love to intimidate others, to boost themselves up,they bully, lie and cheat. Who needs this in their life? When you find someone that you enjoy, life is fun and easy. It is never your fault when the breakup comes. If you do not make the move, the universe with help. If someone has been unkind, remember that a Leopard never changes it spots, so history will repeat itself. Move on, there is someone for you that knows all your wonderful qualities and will appreciate them and you.