He is usually the one that asks you out on a date and then has conveniently left his card and cheque book at home. Just doesn’t have his wallet handy. Do you mind paying?
You are the one that is constantly giving him money and it is not reciprocated.
When it comes to a nice drive in his shiny new car you are the one that has to pay for the petrol.
You know that he is lying when he is going overboard or over the top with his descriptions of going to the shops to buy some groceries and why it took so long and you weren’t even interested in where he was or why it took so long. Long detailed explanations of conversations and excuses that just don’t add up.
You also know when he is lying and it is so obvious to you and when you confront him with this he lies blatantly in your face and denies it.
He doesn’t think he needs to change and expects you to be happy...When you say what you want, he says, he,s not changing and thinks you are quite happy with this.After all,he is,,why shouldnt you be.?
Cheats never prosper so he is always broke. You are his cash cow.
When it comes to gifts there are none. Sometimes you get gifts...he may find some earrings on the beach or at a mates house on the ground....picks them up and gives them to you. Meanwhile you are always buying him gifts.
Cuddles and hugs are out of the question or sweet nothings except when it suits him and he can get what he wants.
Does any of this sound familiar? Now that you’ve spotted him, don't wait around for a change. Leave as soon as you humanly can. Don’t tell him you are going, just leave a note for him to find. With a simple goodbye and I won’t be back.
Then thank your lucky stars you got away.
Lessons learnt. It will be easier to spot one next time round.
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Clairvoyant Counsellor and Distance Healer.
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